Be physically attractive
Have features, physique, or presence that others find visually appealing
Physical attractiveness carries measurable social and psychological consequences, whether or not we believe it should.
Maintain ideal weight
Keep your weight where you want it
Weight management is most sustainable and psychologically healthy when pursued for intrinsic reasons rather than...
Be well-groomed
Keep up with hygiene, hair, skin care, and looking put-together daily
Grooming and personal presentation create powerful first impressions that shape social and professional outcomes.
Have personal style
Express yourself through appearance
Personal style is far more than aesthetic preference — it is a form of embodied cognition that influences how you...
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Based on Chulef, Read & Walsh (2001) · Last reviewed February 2026
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